How to Use the Friend Zone to Your Advantage
Guys complain to me all the time that they’ve been relegated to the friend zone.
If this is happening the overwhelming majority of the time it means you’re suffering from a case of “nice-guy syndrome”…
If you have recently overcome nice guy syndrome you are likely suffering from Friend Zone PSTD. It happened so many times that you’re hyper critical and cautious of it happening again but you shouldn’t be.
Remember, your mindset should not be trying to bang every girl you meet, it should be trying to intentionally friend-zone women and leverage those friendships to meet more women.
Here’s the thing, cute chicks hang around cute chicks. If some girl won’t sleep with you but she invites you out with her girls and you become friends, use that to your advantage.
You roll into some bar with six cute girl friends and you’re golden.
Not only does this seriously raise your social value to the other hot girls that you’ll meet at the bar, but cool dudes will want to know you who are, too. They’ll want to befriend you, hang out with you, and do business with you.
The Lesson:
Don’t try to bang every chick you meet. Meet girls, be cool and make friends. Those chicks will lead to more chicks and those chicks will lead to even more.
Once you have a bunch of girl friends you can leverage those friendships to provide value to other men of status. If you brought four hot girls to any nightclub, they would let you in without paying a cover. If you brought eight, they would probably comp you a bottle.
If you know a single dork with a boat, hit him up and say that you have a group of girl friends who want to go sailing and ask him if he wants to host. He’ll get to feel like the man and meet a bunch of girls. The girls will get a fun experience, and you’ll get the social commission by brokering the deal. That social commission equates to status when you post the content on Instagram and the hot girls who follow the hot girls you invited connect the dots.
This is the key to an effective social circle strategy.
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