Do I Need To Be Rich To Date Hot Women?
A lot the teachings of Inner Confidence are how you can use minimalism to be successful in all areas of life.
There's a big misconception out there that you need to have money to date women.
It's crucial to understand that the only lasting method of having a healthy dating life is to first, develop the characteristics that women find attractive, second, learn how to display those characteristics, and third, put yourself in situations where the kind of women you want to meet will notice you displaying those characteristics.
Money can be a signal for traits that women find attractive, like perseverance, entrepreneurship, ambition, and leadership.
But money is not the same as those things. It's just a proxy.
What does this mean for your dating life?
Developing these attractive traits is MORE IMPORTANT than making money. Sure, making money is usually a side effect of working on yourself in this way, but money is just a signal for what's actually attractive. Women are not hard-wired to respond to money, since we evolved before money was invented. But they are hard-wired to respond to all the positive personality traits that being rich signals.
How else can you signal these personality traits, other than becoming rich?
Equally attractive to cultivating wealth is the ideal of having few possessions, traveling all the time, and having a life filled with rich experiences. It's not a coincidence that this is the type of lifestyle we advocate at Inner Confidence, and it's why we even teach you how to do it.
We're happier when we spend money on experiences, like traveling and other people, than when we spend it on material goods and ourselves. This same idea easily applies to dating: the experience is more important than anything you can buy.
Emotional connection is always the primary element of attraction, and everything else is either secondary or noise. If you're using money to signal your attractive traits, it's secondary, and if you think money on its own will attract women, it's just noise.
